So, I got married almost 2 months ago. (wow...) and I've experienced a lot of changes as a result. One of the major changes was in the social arena.
Me and my best guy friend are each other's date to everything. He takes me because I'm used to him getting side tracked with a bajillion conversations, I take him because I don't have to check in on him every five minutes and make sure he's having fun. Well, some of his friends decided to makea "Be C****'s date to victory" group on Facebook. Simple enough, they just wanted him to take a romantic date. One of our mutual friends posted on the group wall and asked what about me? Where was I going to be?
Sorry, just because I'm married does not mean that I don't get to have fun. It does not make me a social leper, though these people seem to think different. I haven't changed that much! I just have a husband instead of a fiancee.
I don't have a problem with the group, the concept, or finding him a romantic date.I want him to be happy. I just don't like that I'm not supposed to have fun anymore. Real Talk--I am just as fun now as I was then, and I still would like to makeitoutofthe house once in awhile, especially since my husband is far away. I still want to have friends.
Won't you be mine? Even though I'm an old married lady who doesn't crush beer cans on her head? or even care about getting pissed drunk?